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Section 03 / 04Etiquette & culture7 storiesLatest 17 Oct 2026

The unspoken

What everyone expects and nobody says.

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Start here. The custom almost every visitor runs into on the first day, and what staff are actually thinking.

Why Japanese Waiters Chase You Down the Street — And Why You Shouldn’t Tip in Japan

No, you don't tip in Japan — but "why not" is the part nobody explains. A Japanese-born editor breaks down what staff are actually thinking, and the few exceptions that are quietly changing. The moment you realize something is different…

5 Aug 2026Checked Oct 20268 min read

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    Asakusa Tori-no-Ichi 2026: What the Rakes and Clapping Mean

    Tori-no-Ichi at Otori Shrine in Asakusa runs 00:00–24:00 on 7 and 19 November 2026. Why people buy kumade rakes, haggle, then clap when the deal is…

    17 Oct 2026Checked Oct 20268 min read

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    Mochi at New Year: Tokyo Fire Department’s Choking Warning

    Tokyo Fire Department area, 2020–2024: 338 people taken to hospital after choking on mochi or similar foods, 135 of them in January. How to eat mochi…

    13 Oct 2026Checked Oct 20268 min read

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    Japan’s New Year Closures: Offices Shut 29 Dec, Banks 31 Dec

    Japan's government offices close 29 Dec 2026–3 Jan 2027, but banks only 31 Dec–3 Jan. What the two legal rules mean for ATMs, ward offices and…

    13 Oct 2026Checked Oct 20267 min read

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    Buying a Japanese Kitchen Knife: The Part After the Shop

    From 1 November 2026, tax on a knife bought in Japan comes back only after an airport customs check, so do the check before the knife…

    12 Oct 2026Checked Oct 202611 min read

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    Sento and Onsen: How to Use a Japanese Bath House

    Rinse before you soak, keep your towel out of the water, never take photos, and ask before cooling the bath. Plus Tokyo's ¥600 sento price from…

    15 Aug 2026Checked Oct 202610 min read

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    What Is Omotenashi? Why Japanese Almost Never Say the Word

    Omotenashi is motenashi, looking after a guest, made polite. Why Japanese almost never say it, why staff go rigid, and Tokyo's 1 April 2025 harassment rule.

    5 Aug 2026Checked Oct 20269 min read

Questions this section answers

  1. Should I buy a big kumade as a souvenir to take home?Asakusa Tori-no-Ichi 2026: What the Rakes and Clapping Mean
  2. Do I have to go on the first day?Asakusa Tori-no-Ichi 2026: What the Rakes and Clapping Mean
  3. Can I have a prayer said for me inside the main hall?Asakusa Tori-no-Ichi 2026: What the Rakes and Clapping Mean
  4. Is a year with three rooster days bad luck?Asakusa Tori-no-Ichi 2026: What the Rakes and Clapping Mean
  5. Should I avoid mochi altogether?Mochi at New Year: Tokyo Fire Department’s Choking Warning
  6. Can I give a small child a whole piece of mochi?Mochi at New Year: Tokyo Fire Department’s Choking Warning
  7. Why are older people so much more at risk?Mochi at New Year: Tokyo Fire Department’s Choking Warning
  8. Do I need to finish my sightseeing before 29 December?Japan’s New Year Closures: Offices Shut 29 Dec, Banks 31 Dec
  9. Why do banks stay open on 29 and 30 December when offices don't?Japan’s New Year Closures: Offices Shut 29 Dec, Banks 31 Dec
  10. Do Japan Post Bank ATMs charge a fee for overseas cards?Japan’s New Year Closures: Offices Shut 29 Dec, Banks 31 Dec

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01 · Planning & moneyBefore you landPasses, SIMs, taxes, cash.4 stories 02 · TransportGetting aroundTrains, buses, ferries, real costs.5 stories 04 · Hidden spotsOff the mapPlaces I go. Nobody paid me.3 stories
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